Saturday, October 1, 2011

Update

Doors are opening for us and we feel very blessed. First of all, our big news is that we have been chosen by a birthmother who wants us to be the parents of her baby boy due February 19! After having our hearts broken a few times, we are still cautious but we are so excited that she has chosen us and I already picture that sweet boy and I love him already. She contacted us and 14 other couples on Parentprofiles on August 16 and sent out a mass e-mail. From there, she kept narrowing her list of potential families, asking lots of questions to each of us. We were very impressed with her and Cameron said "This is exactly how I would do this if I were in her shoes." She narrowed it down to three couples, which included us, and we were all using the same adoption agency, LDS Family Services. She lives in New York and she decided to contact the office there and use them. Again, we were very impressed. After a month, she finally made her decision and our caseworker, Jason called us on September 14 to give us the good news! Such a happy day. Of course things can still go wrong, but I have faith it will all work out. She is an amazing woman and it has been a privilege to get to know her.

That same week, I was offered a job working at a local health club. It is part-time and the physical therapist who owns it wants me to transition to doing nutrition consulting in January with the gym members and PT patients. I was shocked because I was just looking for a simple low-stress part time job to pass the time when I applied. Then I got a call from the hospital in my town and they asked if I would be interested in working one day a month at the hospital as a dietitian. It will eventually work in to one day a week. I did not even apply and I was again, shocked. Both employers are okay with me working both places and they both know about baby coming. Not sure how it is all going to play out but I feel so blessed. If anything, it will pass the time the next 20 weeks.

The other big news is that Cameron and I bought a semi-truck and trailer in September. Okay, we took out a huge loan, but still! Cameron will be driving truck in the oil fields in North Dakota hauling water. He passed the CDL exam on the same day we were chosen by our birth mother. Talk about an eventful week. It has all come together really fast and we are not sure when Cameron will be leaving but we feel really good about it. We can't deny how the Lord has led us in this direction. It will be a huge sacrifice and Cameron will be gone A LOT. It is also scary to be seriously in debt, but it will all work out.
On September 19, we flew out to Memphis, TN to pick up our truck and drive it home. Now that was an adventure! We slept in Wal-mart parking lots at night cuz it has a sleeper in the back. I will never look a Wal-mart the same again. It was home-sweet-home! Here are some pictures of our adventure.

Our Rental Car at the Little Rock airport

We drove to Memphis area that night and stayed with my uncle Craig and his family. It was so great to see them and they were so welcoming!

The truck! It was interesting driving around downtown Memphis in that thing!

In the sleeper part of the truck. That will be Cameron's home for a while. :(

10 comments:

Doug & Jessica Hansen said...

Yahoo!! I'm glad things are looking up for you! Of course it's never easy to make sacrafices for any of it but it is so worth it! Keep us updated on all the new developments and we wish you the best!

Aaron and Carolyn said...

Yay!! We are glad that things are looking so good for you guys!! We hope that everything will continue to work out. We are in Wyoming and Aaron works for a company who is contracted with Shell oil (his company builds and maintains the oil rigs) and we know well the oil field thing. Driving the water truck is a big job, but it is a good one. I'm sure the ward there had lots of lone men who are on their 2 weeks on, just like our ward has. Good luck to you guys. Sounds like things are good!

Linds said...

Nessa! What a turn around! I just love you. And I'm so proud of you two. Congrats on jobs! And I'll keep you in my prayers and the baby's safe arrival and love of a beautiful Foster family.

Richelle said...

Yay! I hope everything works out for you!

Krysta McClure said...

Your post made me smile tonight. I know that the Lord will continue to guide and bless you...... a beautiful family trusting and growing. So excited for you, Vanessa!

Sarah said...

Thanks for your comment on my blog and congrats on being chosen. Jessica and Doug are in our ward and we go to an infertility group together. I'll be following your journey. Good luck with everything and you can email me if you want at alexsarahadoption@live.com. If you every come to Rexburg let me know.

Fab Five said...

So glad to see things are looking up! It seems like you just have to hold out during the hard times and then things suddenly turn around!

Ashleigh said...

I loved reading this post! It confirms everything I felt about you guys. I look forward to reading updates. Good luck with everything! You guys are so great.

Brock and Kristina said...

Wow!! Just caught up on your blog. SOOOO many changes for you guys! Sheeesh! I will add you to my prayers for sure. I can't believe Cameron quit his job to drive a semi in the Dakotas. Sheesh! If he ever drives through Riverton, tell him to give us a call!

Kasey&McKall said...

Oh my gosh! Its funny that I only knew you one weekend cuz strangely I miss ya! We need to talk please! My husband had been considering going to north dakota, my friend just got back. We would love more details. Also congratulations any baby would be so blessed to have you two as parents! I have pictures of you surfing if you want to give me your email address, they are great!